Thanks everyone for your great suggestions and support in my quest for a bathing suit. I went to the mall yesterday because the Ma.cys near us has a pe.a in the p.od maternity department and the Se.ars has a La.nds En.d. I ended up not getting any but I did learn that the medium pe.a in the pod bathing suits fit me well. While expensive (about the price of a nice j. cr.ew bathing suit) they do provide "the girls" proper support and I don't look obscene in it. This in no means I look good in it but at least mothers will not shield the eyes of their children from me. Unfortunately they did not have the style that I really liked that I had tried on in the large. So we ordered one and it should arrive in a few days. Here are some pictures from the web site. I have a feeling that I will not be posting any pictures of me in the actual suit anytime soon.